In my 23 years of existence, I have never been in love. Yes! it’s true, Mr. Cupid haven’t been able to put an arrow to my heart yet. I have few crushes though but was never really serious about it. At school, I was never really the type of girl who would sit all day under the tree just to wait for the apple of their eyes to pass by.

My friends used to call me “weirdo” because I never gave too much attention to boys when I was a lot younger, don’t get me wrong I am still young. I guess I was just very busy with other things, so busy that I don’t have time to stop for awhile and look for someone who will sweep me off my feet.

Being with someone right now is not really one of my top priorities. I have a lot of other things to do with my life. With my attitude, I don’t think I can stay in a relationship for long because I am such an easy go lucky kind of girl. I don’t want to be tied up and I don’t like having someone who will control me. Though there are moments that I would imagine myself being with someone and to feel what it’s like to be in the arms of someone you love. I know it feels good but I am just not into it as of the moment. I am alone but not lonely.

They say that when you’re in love, you always wear a smile in your face. When you found the right one, everyday is like a walk in the park. Things seems to be so easy for you because you have someone who will inspire you through out the day. It feels good to love and be loved in return. Love is a wonderful feeling as many people would say. You can do crazy things when you’re in love because love knows no boundaries. People can get to the extreme when they feel that magical feeling called “love”.

Like any other feeling, there’s always a bitter part of being in love. Just when you thought you’ve found Mr. Right but then again you got it all wrong. The most painful part of being in love is when the person whom you’re in love with doesn’t feel the same way or you just broke up with someone whom you have spent most part of your life. That’s the reality that all of us must face. Losing someone you have love for a long time can sure be a misery and it usually takes a lot of effort to pick up the pieces and move on. Moving on is not an easy thing to do, it takes a lot of time before someone can finally get over the love of his/her life but you don’t want to be miserable for the rest of your life, right?

A piece of advice from not so expert when it comes to being in love. When you love don’t give everything you’ve got, try to spare a little for yourself so that when you have to separate ways, you still got something a little for yourself. Remember also that when loving becomes painful, it’s better to give up that love rather losing your own self. You can always find another love but not another self.